Do not call me “man”, “dude” or “bro”.

cctcd:

kiriamaya:

I realize that a lot of people have come to think of them as non-gendered colloquialisms, but they are still obviously rooted in maleness, and thus I don’t want them attributed to me.

Please and thank you.

Or mate or lad or any other designator that has a history of association with men.

Mate? The rest are gendered terms that we, society, often use non-genderedly, but mate just means friend… It’s a slightly boyish term, but in the same way that tomboys are boyish.

Obviously, I wouldn’t use any term that someone doesn’t want used for them, I’m just a bit baffled.

Notes

  1. missksugarheartbelljar reblogged this from oldrebelpachelbel
  2. grimseer reblogged this from rendezvousordie and added:
    You say that we are degendering man-bro-dude then, but what about the female counterpart of those words? Would you ever...
  3. purplegoesbothways reblogged this from grimseer and added:
    totally understandable why...trans woman wouldn’t want
  4. weird-kid-in-the-corner reblogged this from cocktopimp and added:
    Dude, bro, chill the fuck out.
  5. twin-spica reblogged this from aircalibur
  6. aircalibur reblogged this from rendezvousordie and added:
    can’t forget this guy: or the Holy Broman Empire or Broseph of Arimathea you know, all those bros of history
  7. bahnubee reblogged this from princegaspard and added:
    ‘Bro’ ‘dude’ ‘man’ etc are so genderless now, most people just say them without thinking. I say it to people I don’t...
  8. tluthal reblogged this from notasenator and added:
    I am adoring that Anne Broleyn. Yessss.
  9. fearcutsdeeperthanswords reblogged this from notasenator
  10. ironlassoftime reblogged this from sppandaaa and added:
    I just use dude as a general exclamation these days. I agree that it doesn’t matter, but if someone doesn’t want to be...
  11. notasenator reblogged this from rendezvousordie and added:
    Slow your roll, Brodysseus.
  12. rendezvousordie reblogged this from sppandaaa and added:
    I think… It’s actually kind...we’re degendering dude-man-bro? So yeah,
  13. homostuckhomestuck reblogged this from themostchill and added:
    I call everyone Babe, BB, love, bro, broski, chump (yes, everyone), sweetcakes, lover, and max. I call everyone all of...
  14. ultrabaguette reblogged this from blu-masonjar
  15. kanemehime reblogged this from cocktopimp
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  17. princegaspard reblogged this from cocktopimp
  18. themostchill reblogged this from the-artist-formerly-known-as-jd and added:
    Now this is something that has come to my attention. I’m a friendly guy and sometimes, I want to use a word to the same...
  19. turntechgodkid reblogged this from the-artist-formerly-known-as-jd and added:
    (if you wanna pull that thats cool but then id like to voice my opinion i dont like being called cute or adorable im a...
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